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There’s also debate about whether a daddy has to occupy the penetrative role in sex. Peter thinks it’s more complicated than that: “Someone is daddy before they f*** you. It’s that they could do all those things”. Yet the majority of daddy admirers that I spoke to do associate daddies with sexual dominance and penetration. Sam, 22, says daddies are men who can “physically and mentally dominate me and turn on my submissive side”.
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Similarly, James, 26, says someone being a daddy has more to do with “sexual dominance than age”.Ĭhris says calling him daddy is often a way that younger guys project their sexual fantasies on to him. “ When guys say ‘daddy’ to me it normally means they’re somebody who wants a masculine person, and I’m not particularly masc. Then they also expect you to be all dominant and I'm not a dom person either.”īut fantasy goes both ways. And for some men it even evolves past fantasy form a central part of their relationships. Tim*, 44, has self-identified as a “daddy” in sexual relationships for the past 15 years. His last two boyfriends have even called him daddy, instead of his name, at all times except in public.
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“‘Daddy’ infers a certain respect and dynamic,” he says. “I’ll care for you, love you and even provide for you, but ultimately I’m in charge and what I say goes. So in short: daddies tend to be older and, more often than not, on the dominant side. The trope is an identifier for older men, but also a label that’s often put on them by younger guys whether they like it or not. Depending on the person it can be a kink fantasy, or a genuine relationship philosophy.